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Is celebrating rude?

Posted By: Coolrey
Date: Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 3:59 p.m.

In Response To: Is celebrating rude? (David)

It's cool for your kid to do it, but you ought to act like you have won before. Do you want your kid to act like Billy White Shoes Johnson or Terell Owens if he scores a touchdown in a pop warner football game? Are you going to be leading him in that celebration???

I audibly complain sometimes when I have a particularly unlucky sequence at backgammon and everyone knows it, but they just call me a whiner and tend to forgive me... Because they have all been there, and they can understand it. Some people are better losers than others: Matt Rekalaitis is a great example...you can't tell who won after his matches.

Maybe another reason I get a pass, I THINK, is that I never ever gloat. Maybe that is because it really pisses me off when someone ELSE gloats!

In my experience being a bad loser tends to be forgiveable, (I have apologized for it more times than I like to remember), but being a bad winner isn't.

I guess you were happy to get all the money, because you were begging to hedge throughout the match. I respect your game, David, and I would have hedged but Stick and I had agreed not to in the round before when any one of 4 people could potentially be our opponent in the consolation final. Of those 4, you were one of the two I most feared would make it... I like your game! I was only going to get 1/3 of whatever Stick won, (either 400 or 800 bucks), so I wasn't inclined or motivated to dilute my position any further...

Ease up on the celebrating and definitely don't teach your son to gloat. Did he celebrate excessively when he won the childrens event? What would you have done if he had? The answer to those questions should guide you in this one!

Messages In This Thread

• Is celebrating rude?
  David -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 3:54 p.m.
  • Is celebrating rude?
    Jason Lee -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 4:06 p.m.
    • Is celebrating rude?
      Bill Riles -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 4:36 p.m.
      • Is celebrating rude?
        happyjuggler0 -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 5:02 p.m.
  • Is celebrating rude?
    misja -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 4:17 p.m.
  • Is celebrating rude?
    neilkaz -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 4:46 p.m.
    • Is celebrating rude?
      Bill Riles -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 6:45 p.m.
  • Is celebrating rude?
    David Rockwell -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 8:56 p.m.
  • Is bitching rude?
    adambulldog -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 9:52 p.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      David Rockwell -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 10:10 p.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      neilkaz -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 10:21 p.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      Matt Cohn-Geier -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 10:33 p.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      Jason Lee -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 10:34 p.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      Bill Riles -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 10:37 p.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      Barry Silliman -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 11:58 p.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      Frank_N_Stein -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 4:27 a.m.
      • Is bitching rude?
        Bob Koca -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 3:18 p.m.
        • Is bitching rude?
          Frank_N_Stein -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 3:23 p.m.
          • Is bitching rude?
            Caryl Stephanson -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 8:29 p.m.
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              happyjuggler0 -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 11:18 p.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      Steve Mellen -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 4:40 a.m.
      • Is bitching rude?
        Coolrey -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 4:02 p.m.
        • Is bitching rude?
          Steve Mellen -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 4:20 p.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      garyo -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 6:37 a.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      Coolrey -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 4:44 p.m.
      • Is bitching rude?
        Steve Mellen -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 5:28 p.m.
        • Is bitching rude?
          Coolrey -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 10:54 p.m.
          • Is bitching rude?
            Jason Lee -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 11:23 p.m.
          • Is bitching rude?
            Bill Riles -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 11:52 p.m.
            • Is bitching rude?
              Coolrey -- Thursday, 26 March 2009, at 1:03 a.m.
          • Is bitching rude?
            adambulldog -- Wednesday, 25 March 2009, at 1:57 a.m.
            • Is bitching rude?
              Bill Riles -- Wednesday, 25 March 2009, at 3:00 a.m.
            • Is bitching rude?
              Bill Riles -- Wednesday, 25 March 2009, at 4:59 p.m.
              • Is bitching rude?
                adambulldog -- Wednesday, 25 March 2009, at 6:00 p.m.
                • Is bitching rude?
                  Bill Riles -- Wednesday, 25 March 2009, at 6:17 p.m.
                • Is bitching rude?
                  Bob Koca -- Thursday, 26 March 2009, at 4:56 a.m.
                  • Is bitching rude?
                    Keene -- Thursday, 26 March 2009, at 2:13 p.m.
    • Was this rude ?
      neilkaz -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 4:47 p.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      John O'Hagan -- Wednesday, 25 March 2009, at 3:20 a.m.
    • Is bitching rude?
      Chuck Bower -- Wednesday, 25 March 2009, at 1:31 p.m.
      • Is bitching rude?
        Bill Finneran -- Wednesday, 25 March 2009, at 2:06 p.m.
  • Is celebrating rude?
    Stick -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 11:36 p.m.
    • Is celebrating rude?
      adambulldog -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 12:02 a.m.
      • Is celebrating rude?
        garyo -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 6:24 a.m.
    • Better be sure it's really over!
      mamabear -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 2:59 p.m.
      • Better be sure it's really over!
        happyjuggler0 -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 3:26 p.m.
  • Is celebrating rude?
    Barry Silliman -- Monday, 23 March 2009, at 11:50 p.m.
  • Is celebrating rude?
    garyo -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 6:31 a.m.
  • Is celebrating rude?
    Stein Kulseth -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 11:54 a.m.
  • Is celebrating rude?
    Coolrey -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 3:59 p.m.
    • Is celebrating rude?
      Jason Lee -- Tuesday, 24 March 2009, at 4:11 p.m.